Monday, September 21, 2009

Red Light, Green Light—Teaching Kids Proper Road Behaviour


Several times over the summer, I had the opportunity to walk with my kids around the neighbourhood and enjoy the sweet breeze along the way. We would take our time walking around to get some good exercise, and simply admire the old trees that lined-up our streets.
Each time we reach a street corner, my kids would suddenly become alert, and would remain vigilant before, during and after crossing the road. This has been their training ever since they started to walk, and stepped onto the concrete pavements of our streets, under my close supervision. Of course, as young as my children are, I still make it a point to hold their little hands whenever we cross the streets.

One bright Sunday morning when we were driving along Portage Avenue, a young boy who is barely 8 years old, crossed the road alone on a green light. The little boy dashed to the opposite side of the road, and stepped onto the curb like he had won a race. My kids saw what had happened and said, “Mom, he just crossed the road on a green light!” Their reaction to the incident made me realize that children, as young as they are, know what common sense is. Crossing the road alone especially if one is still a kid, needs to be supervised by a responsible adult. The roads aren’t a safe place to cross on your own, and so, children need to be supervised and educated about pedestrian safety.

Janice Paskey from Today’s Parent, published an article on the subject in September 2009 issue of Reader’s Digest. She listed out some important reminders about Pedestrian Safety—By Age. For your information, here is an excerpt from that article.

Pedestrian Safety—By Age

Up to 4 years old – This is when parents tend to be most vigilant about supervising kids around cars; consequently, children are at the lowest risk of being hit or killed. Little ones can’t understand the dangers, so hold your child’s hand as you near the road, or strap her into a stroller. For extra safety, dress tots in bright colours and use reflector tape. And it’s never too soon to start modelling good traffic behaviour, such as crossing at lights and waiting for cars to stop at crosswalks.

5 to 9 years old – risk increases, especially for boys. “The five-to nine-year olds are out of the house more; they’re a little more independent,” says Pam Fuselli, executive director of Safe Kids Canada. “They’re shorter and harder to see than adults, and their capability to understand the road and cars is still developing.” Fusselli says kids often assume that they can beat the car or that the driver will stop. “One of the things we teach is to make eye contact”—the driver sends a kind of message to cross. With kids in the early school years, you should still be holding the child’s hand while crossing. By age nine or so, most kids will be able to cross familiar streets on their own, as long as they’ve been coached in the safety rules. Kids age five to nine are most likely to be hit trying to cross a road with no traffic lights, and one out of seven collisions suffered by kids in this age group happen when a child emerges from between parked cars.

10 to 14 years old—Tweens and teens really believe nothing can happen to them as they saunter along, talking on cellphones and listening to iPods. But this is the highest-risk group for pedestrian injuries, so vigilance is still key. Experts agree that by ten to 12 years old, most children have fully developed the cognitive skills to assess traffic risk and cross unfamiliar streets alone.

Thursday, September 17, 2009

Dash Some Love Into Your Kids' Lunches

It’s been a few weeks already since school had started. For most of us, this is the time to get back to our regular routine of sending our kids off to school, picking them up, enrolling them in dance or piano classes and many others. Yes, it can be pretty hectic and daunting at first. But once we are following our schedules consistently, we’ll be able to get accustomed to it in no time.

Part of our kids’ day in school is eating their snacks and lunches. Most of us (I hope), have no problem preparing their food. If we follow Canada’s Food Guide To Healthy Eating, not only are we helping our kids, but we are also doing ourselves a favour, by keeping ourselves informed of what a balanced diet is. You know even as grown-ups, we too, also need to be reminded!

This morning, as I was preparing my kids’ lunches, my creative juices started to spill out. I suddenly thought of giving my kids a surprise. I took several markers and two napkins, and started working on something which will surely touch their hearts.

My finished product?...two works of art! An expressive way to show my love!

When my kids got back home from school, they were so excited. Both of them brought out the napkins I gave them, and gave me a warm, big hug. My youngest child thanked me for it and admitted that she was so surprised to find it in her lunch bag. My other daughter expressed her appreciation by giving me a kiss. At that moment, I felt so loved and appreciated.

Doing thoughtful things for our children, no matter how big or small they are, are always a ‘big hit’ to them. This cutesy love note writing (as I call it), is something which I have been doing for several years since my kids started going to school. It never fails to surprise them, and it just makes their day even brighter.

After I received their kisses and hugs, my husband got into the scene and jokingly asked, “Where’s mine?” I replied, “Oh, don’t you worry. I’ll make one for you—besides, you got a lot of kisses and hugs from me already.”

Husbands, they just can’t get enough!

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

A Change of Heart

To all my friends and followers of the blog, "On Places and Faces", you might be 'surprised' on 'WHY' I've changed the title, format and direction. There are a couple of main reasons to explain this sudden change of heart:

1) Relevance -- This is not to say that my former topic on travelling is irrelevant. In all honesty, I love to travel and will always be interested in it (even if my hair is turning grey and walking with a cane in my hand). After I have successfully set-up my blog and published two posts last week, there was this constant churning in my heart that caused me to ponder whether this was the topic that I would like to talk about for a long period of time. I realized that this wasn't the choice of topic dictated by my heart from the start. All the while, my heart has been wanting to talk about children -- a topic that I am passionate about. At that moment, my maternal instinct took a high jump and yelped, "YES! This is what I want to talk about in my blog!" I felt a rush of excitement within, as if I were baptized with cold water which awakened my senses-- FINALLY! Now, the topic on children is very much relevant in the world we live in. They are undoubtedly the hope of every nation and the reflection of who we really are.


2) My Passion -- We were told a few times before in our class, to write about something that we are interested in or passionate about. Something that we care to discuss with others and simply share our honest opinions and insights about the matter. Although we were clearly told that we can update and refine our blogs as time goes by, I made this big step to totally revamp my blog from top to bottom, inside and out. A move which I deemed wise; a move that I won't have any regrets; a move that will change lives forever. The new direction of my blog is about children. As a mother, this strikes a chord and touches a soft spot in my heart.


For many years, I have been working in different settings where children are involved. In my teens, I worked in a centre for disabled children for the whole summer. I had the privilege to teach arts & crafts, and bring hope to those little ones, whose lives were devastated by domestic abuse and the effects of certain diseases, which crippled their minds, bodies and souls. The time I spent as a volunteer in that centre was a turning point in my life. Besides from meeting their basic needs such as food, water, clothing and shelter, I also felt strongly about advocating their rights and general welfare.


Why the name, HEARTSTRINGS WINNIPEG?

As defined in www.dictionary.reference.com, 'heartstrings' refers to 'the deepest feelings and affections.'  This perfectly describes my passion towards children. From a mother's point of view, I can imagine the time when my kids were still small and learning to crawl. Those early years when I was ecstatic about their first few steps, and even the first few hours after their arrival to this world. My heart simply talks to theirs, where a continuous exchange of affectionate love is felt. There is also that bonding that exists, where my heartstrings are connected to theirs.

The intentions of this blog is to discuss issues affecting children. It would also include topics that would be of great interest to families about raising kids; safety; helpful tips on how to make the most of your quality time with them; various children's activities; arts and crafts; yummy recipes they will love; and so much more!

So whether you have kids or not, or simply work with children in your community, (or let's say, interested in advocating their rights and general welfare), then this blog is for you! Please feel free to give me your feedback on any topic that I will be covering. I am sure that you will find this quaint meeting place, very interesting!

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

The Empire- Your Way to a World of Opulence



Doesn't this picture look VERY familiar? Maybe, you've seen it SOMEWHERE.. Oh, yes- it's the exact photo on top of my blog! This picture was taken by my husband sometime in 2005. It's composed of 3 different frames, put together as one to give you a panoramic view of the lagoon surrounding The Empire Hotel & Country Club, in the small but rich sultanate country of Brunei Darussalam in Asia. This hotel brings back fond memories of weekend stays , company functions, wedding receptions and dinners with family & friends.

Within the tourism industry and beyond, people would rate this place as a '6-star' hotel. What makes it deserving of its rating is its luxurious facilities and amenities. There are over 540 rooms in this hotel and some of its rooms were decorated with marble-clad bathrooms, walk-in showers, European furnishings and Italian down feather pillows and duvets- all these can be found in deluxe, superior and ocean view rooms. In one of our weekend stays in this hotel, we used a deluxe room. My children who were very young then, enjoyed the beds at the most part because they were really comfortable. Although they had so much fun playing at the beach earlier on the day, the best part was getting to bed. During the APEC Economic Leaders' Meeting in 2000, then President Bill Clinton, was said to have used the hotel's Emperor Suite, tagged as "The World's Leading Presidential Suite". This room has its own private elevator access, swimming pool, steam room & sauna, movie theatre and grand piano. Surely, this room is fit for an emperor and his royal entourage!

This hotel is undoubtedly a class of its own and very opulent. There were several times when we used the hotel's facilities but most of which were spent at the beach, building sandcastles or playing on top of the huge inflatables in the water. We were so glad that we got the chance to stay in the hotel on a weekend, and simply enjoy the 'free' accommodation given to us by our friend. If you happen to visit Brunei, you may want to try and experience staying at The Empire. At least, you'll feel pampered like royalty even for a night!

On my last visit to this hotel, my friends and I took numerous pictures as mementos to bring with me to Canada. Beyond the opulence of this marvellous destination, it was the friends I made and the precious moments spent with my family that matter most.



Tuesday, September 8, 2009

...and the quest begins!

Today in our morning class, we were encouraged to create our own blog and a title that will go with it. I initially thought of using "Life Matters" as my blog name but unfortunately, it's already been taken. And so, the quest for another title began.


On my way home, my mind was practically filled with lots of stuff from things discussed during our morning class, all the way to the entertaining and educational presentations we had during our afternoon session in advertising. All these things paved the way for me to think actively and exercise my brain cells. As a result, I was able to think of 'on places and faces' as the new name for my blog. This title encapsulates everything and anything I would like to share about on different places, the people, the culture and the events surrounding them. My blog would also include my insights and opinion on issues that affect us, either directly or indirectly.

On Places and Faces, a blog that you might want to visit everytime, anytime!

On the lighter side of things, this reminds me of a song by 'The Beatles'. Click on the video and enjoy!




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